THE DIVORCE PREVENTION PROTOCOL
- A Live 2-Hour Marriage Intervention to De-Escalate High Conflict and Rebuild Connection Before Divorce Becomes Inevitable.
Most Divorces Don’t Start with Cheating. They Start with Silence.
Most marriages don’t end with a massive explosion. They end with a slow emotional shutdown. You stop fighting. You stop touching. You stop sharing.
You become excellent managers of a household… and strangers in your own bed. This is not normal marriage fatigue. This is the Danger Zone.
You don’t have months to “talk about your feelings.” You need a surgical intervention to stop the drift immediately.
THE ROOMMATE SYNDROME
Most marriages don't end with a massive explosion. They end with a slow drift. You stop fighting, but you also stop connecting. You become excellent 'project managers' of the household handling bills, kids, and schedules but you are strangers in your own bed.
This silence is more dangerous than screaming. Traditional therapy asks you to 'talk about your feelings' for months while your marriage quietly bleeds out. You don't have months. You are in the Danger Zone right now. You need a surgical intervention to stop the drift immediately.
WHY 2 HOURS BEATS 10 MONTHS OF THERAPY
You don’t have time to sit on a couch every week retelling the same fights. That isn’t healing. That’s rehearsing the pain.
Traditional therapy searches for root causes over months. We identify the active "cancer" in the marriage in minutes and remove it. This is not talk therapy. It is a clinical intervention designed to stop the bleeding fast.
We focus immediately on stopping daily conflict, emotional withdrawal, and shutdown.
No awkward date nights. No endless homework. We fix the foundation so connection returns naturally.
We identify contempt, stonewalling, neglect, and resentment and remove them surgically.
Most couples feel a weight lift within the first 45 minutes of the session.
MEET DR. GARY BELL
Certified Crisis Therapisy
I am not a traditional therapist who asks, “How does that make you feel?” for six months. I served as Department Head of Psychology for a Sheriff’s Department, working daily with life-and-death crises. In a crisis, you don’t analyze. You act.
I brought that same emergency-room mindset into private practice. Over the last 20+ years, I have worked with more than 10,000 couples and logged over 20,000 clinical hours.
Traditional therapy moves too slowly for a marriage on the brink. You don’t need a mediator. You need a surgeon. That is why I built this intervention.
I have worked over 500 critical events including treating multiple local, state, federal and international first responders and victims."
LMFT | Ed.D. | CRISIS INTERVENTION EXPERT
WHAT HAPPENS IN THE 2-HOUR INTERVENTION
Stop the High Conflict courtroom battles where one wins and one loses. Learn the 'Ear vs. Mouth' method that de-escalates arguments in minutes.
Heal the resentment that has built up over years. Move from roommates back to partners without digging up the past.
Rebuild intimacy that protects your marriage. Install boundaries that lock out intruders and secure the covenant long-term.
Next Session: February 14th | 1PM - 3PM
If you see yourself in these, you are closer to divorce than you think.
CRITICISM
Complaints turn into character attacks. You stop saying, “I didn’t like that,” and start saying, “You are the problem.” This is the first crack in the foundation.
CONTEMPT
Sarcasm. Eye-rolling. Mockery. This is the single biggest predictor of divorce because it communicates disgust, not disappointment.
DEFENSIVENESS
The shield goes up. Instead of hearing your spouse’s pain, you cross-examine like a lawyer. Nothing gets owned. Nothing gets fixed.
STONEWALLING
You go silent and call it “keeping the peace.” In reality, you’re cutting off oxygen. This is where couples start living parallel lives.
APATHY
The final stage is apathy. You stop fighting because you stop caring. This is the Danger Zone. If you wait here, papers come next. You must intervene before that happens.
STOP THE DRIFT BEFORE PAPERS ARE FILED
Waiting is not a strategy. Every day of silence thickens the wall between you. The average divorce costs $15,000+. This intervention costs $249. One path destroys your family. The other gives you a fighting chance.
FAQs
You do not need their permission to start saving your marriage. When one person changes their steps in the dance, the dance changes. Start alone. Apply the tools. Watch the system shift.
You do not need 20 hours of talking about your childhood. You need 2 hours of tactical skills to stop the bleeding. We remove the fluff and give you the exact scripts to de-escalate conflict immediately.
Both. Dr. Bell is a clinically trained marriage and family therapist with 20+ years of experience, and the foundation is built on the Christian value of covenant. It works for anyone committed to preserving their marriage.
$249 One-Time Payment